You might be someone who has spent years—maybe your whole life—saying yes when you meant no.
Especially with physical affection and intimacy. You…Read more
You used to like his affection—now you cringe. You think something's wrong with you or the marriage. But really, what's happening is that you've grow…Read more
When you fight against colonization and oppression with absolute moral certainty, you risk becoming a colonizer yourself—imposing your ideology, sham…Read more
For years, I convinced myself that wanting engagement was ego. That "detaching from outcomes" was evolved. But here's what I finally see: that wasn'…Read more
That untethered, insecure feeling? The sense that you don't know who you are anymore? It's not random. It's the cost of spending your whole life aban…Read more
If you've spent your life making yourself small to avoid being "too much," this is for you. Learn how the fear of being a burden creates self-abando…Read more
Discovering my APOE4/4 Alzheimer's genetic markers could have destroyed me. Instead, it became the deepest inner work of my life—teaching me to face …Read more
That gnawing restlessness, the "is this all there is?" feeling, the sense that something's missing even though your life looks perfect—that's not a c…Read more
I've always been smiley.
Growing up, I watched my mom navigate the world with warmth and pleasantness, and I learned that a smile opens doors. It p…Read more